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    March 30

    抱怨

    抱怨  一种很负面的情绪 
    抱怨 自己以外的 人 环境等外部事物  来解释现在的非理想状况 让自己得到某种程度的安慰 
    但往往有这种状态的人 根本就没有得到真正的安慰  
    很多事情 是自己选择的 没什么好抱怨的 抱怨也不会让你真正的快乐 
    我承认自己是一个具有典型的风向星座特性的人 很容易受别人影响 
    可是不管谁影响你 给你压力 或是你为谁去做什么事 其实最终决定权 还是在你手上 
    你决定了 可能突然发现 错了 找回当时影响你的人或事物 抱怨一翻 不过一点意义都没有
    一    事情已经发生了
    其二 是你自己决定的 
    抱怨 很容易 使人 忽略现在的美好 还有以后的美好
     
    那天给我英国同学讲述了毕业后发生的事
    她竟然 说 我很勇敢
    这两个字我从来没有想到会放在我身上 我的字典里也从来没有收藏过这个字
    不过回头看
    的确 我真的很勇敢
     
    所以在我的字典里 我删掉了"抱怨" 在旁边写上大大的"勇敢"!!
    2:26 AM | Blog it

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    Yuewrote:
    傻孩儿，我想你了
    Apr. 21
    风 羽wrote:
    what else happens, man? keep me posted! cross my fingers 4 u!
    Apr. 3
    Jia Guwrote:
    加油！
    Mar. 30
    Qi Zhengwrote:
    抱怨会给自己很多负面心理暗示。
    相反，多鼓励自己就会起到积极作用，即使是很小很小的。。。真的！
    不知道你是怎么勇敢的，总之呢，要继续勇敢!!!
    敢不敢更加勇敢呢 ？！
    哈哈，加油啊你！@__@
    Mar. 30
    Qiaohuawrote:
    仔仔……
    好样的
    Mar. 30
    Yuewrote:
    还说我傻妞呢，你也是个小傻子！
    生活多美好啊，抱怨什么？赶紧来看我！
    Mar. 30

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